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Posted: Fri 14:46, 25 Mar 2011 Post subject: Looking for Love in All the Right Places |
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Attract the partner of your dreams or spice up your current relationship with Feng Shui! Single or attached; are you looking for ways to spruce up your love life? Follow these easy steps to create a romantic, fulfilling space for you and the partner of your dreams!
Remember when you first start dating that new special someone? You wanted everything to be just right. We all try our best to make these first encounters extra exceptional! What would you do if you had a date coming over? How would you prepare your space? Would you make room for that person’s things? How would you feel? Try to invoke these feelings now. Imagine in detail what steps you would take to impress that person and to make each moment romantic and wistful!
Feng Shui is a matter consciously creating your life. Through clearing clutter, decorating your home, putting time and effort into your space while setting intentions, this will pave the way to achieving your life’s goals. What we intend, we experience. Simply put, Feng Shui is proactively grabbing the steering wheels of our lives and setting a plan into action. We often neglect ourselves and our needs for peace, joy, and serenity.
So, the first step to achieving prosperous, rewarding relationships is to start by treating yourself with the respect & esteem you deserve (and expect from others). It’s all about achieving balance between work, play, & fun. Considering this, do you treat yourself as you would like your partner to treat you? Do you:
a) Always put yourself last?
b) Reach for your sweat pants 5 days out of 7 and consider it ‘dressing up’ when you wear something else?
c) Run out of time when it comes to your needs?
d) Always have you hand up at work volunteering for extra projects?
e) Have trouble saying no?
f) Not remember the last time you and your honey had some alone time?
If you answered yes to more than 2 of these questions, then something has to change.
Start now:
1. Consider Your Goals � First, consider your goals carefully and remember that thoughts and intentions create your reality. Be realistic and patient with yourself; we suggest writing down your goals so that your focus becomes clearer. Ask yourself what you really need to be happy and go for it - No wavering!
a) Set intentions and repeat your intentions to yourself. For example: “I intend to have a joyous, harmonious relationship with ______.”
b) Affirm that your intentions will manifest by remaining positive. For example: “I have a great relationship with ______, because I’m making an effort to change by ______.”
c) Visualize the outcome as being the goal you intend to achieve. For example: Picture yourself in the above example laughing and getting along with coworkers.
2. Clear the Clutter � ‘Clutter’ can vary from things that are outdated, old, broken, or un-organized, objects and spaces that are dirty, those that evoke unpleasant memories, unfinished projects, or objects that are simply taking up space where they needn’t be. For example:
* Clothes that don’t fit
* Decaying or dying plants, dried flowers
* Broken toys, furniture, dishes etc…
* Cracked mirrors
* Mementos/photos from past relationships
* Dirt, dust & grime
* Over filled cupboards, bookshelves, closets
* Piled up recycling & garbage
Clearing your clutter allows you to:
* Make room for new opportunities
* Clear away the past and live in the present
* Maintain a home that is efficient and gives you peace of mind
* Clear out old emotions and memories that you have been holding onto
3. Organize & Clean: Once you have finished a clutter purge, it time to get down and dirty! Well, what we mean is it’s time to clean your space thoroughly to let the new energy flow through. Vacuum, dust, polish!
4. Create a romantic sanctuary in the Master Bedroom: Try adding:
* Objects in ‘pairs’ to promote companionship & partnership (candles, vases, décor pieces, etc..)
* The colours of red, white, or pink to summon feelings of passion, love, & romance
* Artwork or paintings of lovers, couples, and images that invoke thoughts of love & companionship
* If single, make room in your bedroom for a potential partner’s things; leave a few drawers empty and free up some closet space
* Live plants & fresh flowers
* Animal totems such as doves, love birds, or male/female species
* Sensual scents; rose, jasmine, cinnamon & clove
* Candles & incense
* A basket of luxurious massage oils, creams,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], & lotions
* Good quality linens and sheets
* Lush towels and robes
* Background ambient music
* Water fountains
5. Maintain Clutter Regularly: Once you have got the hang of clearing the clutter, it is easy to maintain this regularly. If you stay on top of clutter, it won’t stay on top of you. For example, as soon as new things come into my home (such as new clothes), I always root through my closet and give away some I don’t use or need. Keep the flow going!
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